A MOTHER’S DESPERATION
24 Jesus left that place and went to the vicinity of Tyre. He entered a house and did not want anyone to know it; yet he could not keep his presence secret. 25 In fact, as soon as she heard about him, a woman whose little daughter was possessed by an impure spirit came and fell at his feet. 26 The woman was a Greek, born in Syrian Phoenicia. She begged Jesus to drive the demon out of her daughter.
27 “First let the children eat all they want,” he told her, “for it is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.”
28 “Lord,” she replied, “even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.”
29 Then he told her, “For such a reply, you may go; the demon has left your daughter.”
30 She went home and found her child lying on the bed, and the demon gone. Mark 7:24-30
Why did Jesus respond to the Syro-Phoenician woman in this way? Was He testing her faith or trying to put her off? Did He have no intention of healing her daughter or was He trying to find out what was in her heart? Knowing His love and compassion, it would seem that He was testing her faith. Did she view Him as some sort of magician or did she recognise something in Him that was not in the gods of her people?
The exchange that took place between them shows a mother’s desperation, confidence and persistence. Although she was not Jewish, she had confidence enough in Jesus, probably because of what she had heard about Him, to know that He would do something for her child even if she were not entitled to anything from Him.
Jesus was using the imagery of His day to test her trust in His nature. He called the Jews “children” and the Gentiles “dogs”. Did He really mean that He regarded her as a “cur”? The Jews did but I don’t think Jesus did. What was her reaction? Was she insulted by the title? It seems not. In her humility, she simply requested a few crumbs from the table!
Jesus melted at her reply because her compassion for her daughter matched His compassion for oppressed people. Her child, and we don’t know how old she was, was being oppressed by the devil. (God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and with power and He want about doing good and healing all who were under the power of the devil because God was with Him,” Acts 10:38) and she would not pass by this opportunity of getting help for her.
Does God sometimes hold out on answering our prayers and meeting our needs or someone else’s need because He wants to know how serious our intention is? Does our compassion match His compassion for desperate, tormented, oppressed people? Does our desperate cry for help melt His heart and move Him to action?