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PAUL’S HAPPY LETTER…PRAYER – 3b

“And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.”

‭‭Philippians‬ ‭1‬:‭9‬-‭11‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Wow! Have you ever prayed a prayer like that…for loved ones…for friends…or even, for someone who has hurt or offended you?

Paul’s prayers followed a pattern…he prayed this for that outcome. “So that…” was the bridge between what he asked of God and what and why he desired for his beloved fellow believers…and he expressed his desire in his prayers. 

Paul also prayed…examples are written in his letters…for spiritual outcomes…things that happened in their hearts and could not easily be seen or measured. Let’s examine what he prayed for these Philippian believers…

Paul prayed one prayer…

“And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight…”

If I may paraphrase, Paul is asking God to give these people a love that was growing but also discerning.  The Greek words he used all point to the same thing…discernment. Knowledge…understanding…discernment. 

Discerning love…what is that?

In a world system under Satanic influence, the devil’s tools to control are all counterfeit, spurious, and deceptive. He even disguises himself as an angel of light. 

Believers need discernment, continually… to test the “spirits”…the motives and attitudes of the people who make up the body of Christ in which they function. This is not suspicion. This is wisdom…a spiritual filter that sifts out what may damage the fellowship…things like pride, division, competition, manipulation. selfish ambition etc. 

Paul often warned, as did John, against these subtle influences that creep in under the guise of “prophecy”, “the Holy Spirit”, and “love”. 

The Bible warns us not to be so “loving” that we miss the warnings signals. 

“Do not stifle the Holy Spirit. Do not scoff at prophecies, but test everything that is said. Hold on to what is good. Stay away from every kind of evil.”

‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭19‬-‭22‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“Dear friends, do not believe everyone who claims to speak by the Spirit. You must test them to see if the spirit they have comes from God. For there are many false prophets in the world.”

‭‭1 John‬ ‭4‬:‭1‬ ‭NLT‬‬

How do we test the attitudes and motives of our fellow believers in our fellowship? Jesus said, “Look at their fruit.” 

“Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves. You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭15‬-‭16‬ ‭NLT‬‬

So, Paul anticipates. three outcomes that flow from discerning love…

“…so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.”

…three outcomes of growing in love that focuses on keeping the lives of God’s people pure and fruitful. 

…discerning and dealing with what creeps in to poison the fellowship…

…pure and blameless lives…not perfect but mature…protecting love and promoting unity…

…fruitfulness that grows in lives that remain attached to the Vine…

“Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.”

‭‭John‬ ‭15‬:‭5‬ ‭NLT‬‬

What a prayer! Imagine a fellowship of people who do life together…lovingly guarding and protecting one another from those who try to disrupt and destroy. They are always watching out for attitudes and behaviour in themselves and others that harm the body. They bear the fruit of union with Jesus…love, joy, and peace… and…Jesus gets the glory!

I need to add a postscript here.  Paul never allows or advocates that God’s people play “policeman” in each other’s lives. To do so would destroy the love that sees and expects the best of one another. Living in and walking by the Spirit would guard us against spying on and judging one another…which is never the role of believers in a fellowship. Our part is to walk in the light with one another, guarding our own hearts and lovingly lifting up those who have fallen. 

“Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭NLT‬‬

To be continued

ONE IN THE BOND OF LOVE

ONE IN THE BOND OF LOVE

“It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart and, whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me. God can testify how I long for you with the affection of Christ Jesus. And this is my prayer; that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness through Jesus Christ – to the glory and praise of God.” Philippians 1:7-11.

That’s quite a mouthful, Paul!

Paul made some powerful statements in his greeting to the Philippian church. He obviously had great affection for these people. They were his first converts in Greece. They loved him; they supported him in every possible way; unlike the Galatian church, they were steadfast in their faith in Jesus and they brought great joy to Paul. He could not help but tell them how much they meant to him in the midst of the trials and persecution he faced. At that very moment he was in prison for the gospel of Christ.

Paul thought about them constantly, as he did the many other small groups scattered all over Europe and Asia who had come to Christ through his preaching and teaching. In spite of his apostolic role, he didn’t lord it over them. They had an equal share in God’s grace with him. He needed grace to endure the suffering and humiliation of persecution and imprisonment for preaching the gospel. They needed grace to be faithful to Jesus in the face of opposition, accusation and misunderstanding and the ever-present danger of betrayal to the authorities, even by friends or family.

God’s grace was very real to Paul. On one occasion he was so traumatised by constant persecution that he pleaded with God to remove the “thorn” of angry persecutors that dogged him wherever he went and the hardships he faced as a travelling apostle. God’s response was not to remove the thorn but to give him strength and grace to endure. The same grace that supported him was available to every Philippian child of God for their daily struggles.

Paul’s written prayers give us deep insight into true prayer. He was more concerned about forming their godly characters than he was about their outward circumstances. As long as they were in this life, they would face trouble. It was not his place to pray them out of it, since God was using the very adversities they faced to mould them into the image of Christ. In his prayers, he affirmed God’s purpose to grow them in righteousness and godliness as a witness to His grace and power in the face of human wickedness in the society around them.

His greeting was “grace and peace,” his prayer for the increase of love and the fruit of righteousness so that their lives would be blameless, not sinless, and pure, not mixed with the ungodly practices of the pagans all around them. Their righteousness was the outflow of Christ’s righteousness which covered them as they lived in a sinful world, surrounded by pressure and temptation to conform in order to evade the inevitable suffering for Jesus’ sake.

Why the increase of love? Love is the very essence of who God is. His love motivates and permeates His every thought and action. Everything He does is for our good and He spares nothing, not even His own Son, to ensure our rescue and our freedom from the ravages of sin. The love of God motivates us, heals and restores us as much as it ministers to others. The more we love, the greater our resemblance to our heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus.

The more we give of ourselves and our resources to meet the needs of others, the more we grow in our understanding of what the right thing is to do in every circumstance. What better desire could Paul express for these dear people who meant so much to him? They were an oasis in the desert of idolatry and wickedness. They were a breath of fresh air in the putrid atmosphere of ungodliness. They were a fountain of living water springing up out of the barren earth.

We can learn from Paul to view life from a different perspective. God is about changing hearts, not circumstances. The very struggles we hate are the things God uses to refine our faith and purify our hearts of our fleshly and selfish appetites so that we can feast on Him and become like Him to shine in the darkness of sin and unbelief.

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