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MOLLY AND ME – DEPENDENCE

I enjoy watching animal rescue programmes on TV, especially when the end result is a happy, healthy creature after weeks or months of abandonment or neglect.

When one has a pet, there is one thing one must never forget.

From the moment I got Molly, I became aware that it was not just myself that I had to take care of but a tiny puppy that was utterly dependent on me. I had to feed her regularly with the appropriate food, bath her, protect her and keep her environment safe, give her exercise and play with her, keep her warm at night and make sure that her toys were safe for a small puppy to chew.

I discovered that a puppy understands very little and knows nothing! I had to teach her and train her to be a dog – when and where to go to the bathroom, what was good and what was not good to chew, not to scratch or bite me in play, where to find her food and water, and so much more.

Now that she is a “teenager”, she had learnt many lessons well but, although she thinks she is independent now, she still needs me to be her “mother” because there are many things she cannot do. For instance, she can’t open the fridge and find her cooked chicken or mince for supper or her kibble in the cupboard; she knows where her treats are but she can’t get to them; she can’t open the back door to go outside to play or to use the bathroom; she can’t get in or out of the car; she can’t bath herself or clean her ears. She would not stay alive long if I did not care for her.

I have also discovered that God wants us to depend on Him for every need we have. We spend up to eighteen years training our children for responsible independence in the big world out there. It takes a lifetime and more for God to teach us that we are nothing and lost without Him. Isn’t that why Jesus told His disciples that, unless they became as little children, they would never experience God’s rule in their lives?

True spiritual maturity is not about how well we know the Bible, how often we go to church or participate in the life of the body of Christ, how good we are at practising our spiritual gifts or even how many people we have led to faith in Jesus.

The writer to the Hebrews stated simply:

Without faith it is impossible to please God… (Heb. 11:6a)

Jesus said:

Apart from me, you can do nothing… (John 15:5c) 

Like an unborn baby that gets everything it needs from its mother through the umbilical cord, we need to be attached to God through the “umbilical cord” of the Holy Spirit.

Spiritual maturity is absolute dependence on God for every detail of our lives. That’s the faith that pleases God!

Learning To Be A Son – Chapter Eight – Reconnecting The Umbilical Cord

CHAPTER EIGHT

Reconnecting the Umbilical Cord

Babies have an attachment to their mothers in the womb without which they cannot survive of grow. It’s called an umbilical cord. At birth the cord is cut because the baby has to learn to live an independent life from its mother.

The parents’ role is to raise that child to mature self-reliant and independent adulthood. No parent would like to have an adult offspring around their necks into old age.

In the spiritual realm God has reversed the process of “growing up”. As children of God we have to learn to live in union with Him. It takes Him a lifetime to teach us to live in dependence on Him because our natural bent is towards self-reliance and independence.

Like the umbilical cord which provides the growing foetus with oxygen and nutrients and removes the waste products from its body, so the Holy Spirit is the link between us and the Father, applying the truth about Jesus to our hearts to nourish our spirits and the blood of Jesus to cleanse us from all sin.

Once again, Jesus is our model. As a perfect son He lived in union with the Father and in submission and obedience to Him. He understood Satan’s tactic and modus operandi to disturb His union with the Father so that He would act independently from Him. Jesus never fell for his deception because He was committed to His submission to the Father. He spent much time in fellowship with the Father and could claim that He always pleased the Father.

Jesus also lived in intimate fellowship with the Holy Spirit who was with Him throughout His human life from His conception to His resurrection.

The same Spirit who was with Jesus is in us, leading us into truth, teaching us about Jesus and applying the word to our hearts that we may mature in holiness. He is like a spiritual “umbilical cord”, joining us to Jesus and enabling us to live in union with Him.

Jesus called a little child and used him to teach His disciples about helpless and dependence.  Like a branch in the vine, we can only bear fruit if we are intimately connected to Him. Sever the branch and we die. The more dependent we are, the more we mature and the more like the Son we become.

Part of our learning process as sons and daughters of God is to reconnect with Jesus through the Holy Spirit so that we can be nourished and cleansed, and so that we can take as much delight in doing God’s will as Jesus did (Psa. 40: 6-8)

Scripture taken from THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

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