YOUR
CUP OF SUFFERING
Suffering
is a mystery to many people. When things go wrong in our lives, we cry out,
“Why me?” Is suffering someone else’s fault? Is it punishment
for my sin? Is the devil attacking me? The accuser is always standing by to
pile guilt on us for what we or someone else might have done or claiming his
right to power over us.
There
are no answers to this question outside of God’s Word.
Firstly,
we must clear our minds of the lies the enemy uses to make us feel helpless and
afraid in times of distress.
1.
God will never punish you again for the sin He has already laid on Jesus.
2.
Jesus has promised to be with you always. He is in you through the presence of
the Holy Spirit. He will never leave or forsake you.
3.
God works in all things for your good. He is Lord in all your circumstances,
not the devil.
4.
Satan may desire to attack but he can only do what God permits. He is only able
to do to us what we fear or what we believe he will do.
CATEGORIES
OF SUFFERING
1.
Common to all on a fallen planet
Adam’s
sin brought alienation from God and death upon the whole human race. We are all
part of the consequences of Adam’s sin.
Some
people think that they became exempt from trouble when they believed in Jesus,
but this idea is contrary to the Bible. We live on a planet corrupted by sin
and we only leave sin and its consequences behind when we die.
“I
have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you
will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
John
16:33 NIV
2.
Consequences of our own sin
Not
only do people sin against us, but we sin against ourselves and others.
However, our sin is firstly against God because, by sinning against another we
have disobeyed God’s instructions to love one another. All sin is disobedience,
and we are, therefore, guilty of sin against Him.
“Against
you, and you alone, have I sinned; I have done what is evil in your sight. You
will be proved right in what you say, and your judgment against me is
just.”
Psalms
51:4 NLT
We
participate personally in Adam’s sin when we actively engage in anything that
falls short of God’s glory. Our sin has consequences.
“If
you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of
criminal, or even as a meddler.”
1
Peter 4:15 NIV
3.
Called to suffer for our faith in Christ.
Jesus
warned that our union with Him will inevitably call down the wrath of
unbelievers on us because they hate God and all who belong to Him. The whole
world is divided into two camps, those who are for and those who are against
God. There is no neutral ground, and those who are God’s enemies hate God’s
children.
“Anyone
who isn’t with me opposes me, and anyone who isn’t working with me is working
against me.
Matthew
12:30 NLT
“Yes,
and everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will suffer
persecution.”
2
Timothy 3:12 NLT
“But
how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure
it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable
before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving
you an example, that you should follow in his steps.”
1
Peter 2:20-21 NIV
PURPOSE
1.
To grow and strengthen our faith
Any
kind of suffering will either make us bitter or better. We are called to trust
God in all our circumstances, not to get out of them but to be purified from
the doubt and unbelief that insult God and question His faithfulness to His
Word.
“In
all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to
suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven
genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even
though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honour when Jesus Christ
is revealed.”
1
Peter 1:6-7 NIV
2.
To develop perseverance, character, and hope
God
uses all our trials to build strength of character, endurance, and
perseverance. Only those who become more resilient under testing will make it
to the end.
“Consider
it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,
because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let
perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not
lacking anything.”
James
1:2-4 NIV
“Not
only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering
produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”
Romans
5:3-4 NIV
3.
To have done with sin
When
all is going well with us, it is easy to become complacent and indulgent
towards our sinful old nature. Suffering makes us aware of the cost of sin in
our lives.
“Therefore,
since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude,
because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin. As a result, they do not
live the rest of their earthly lives for evil human desires, but rather for the
will of God.”
1
Peter 4:1-2 NIV
4.
To share in God’s holiness
God
is preparing us for an eternity in His presence where no sin is tolerated. Jesus
has made us holy through His suffering. We are to work out this holiness in our
attitudes and behaviour by the way we refuse to tolerate sin in our lives and
choose to live the way Jesus taught us, by His grace.
“Endure
hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children
are not disciplined by their father?… They disciplined us for a little while
as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may
share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.
Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those
who have been trained by it.”
Hebrews
12:7, 10-11 NIV
5.
To share in Christ’s inheritance
We
are called to suffer with Jesus as well as to suffer for Him. We must have the
same attitude He had. He never complained or resisted the suffering He was
called to endure.
“For
God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered
for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps… He did not
retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left
his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly.”
1
Peter 2:21, 23 NLT
“Now
if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if
indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his
glory.”
Romans
8:17 NIV
6.
To correct our perspective
If
we remember that God is preparing us for an eternity with Him, our suffering
will take on an eternal perspective that will keep us focused on our
destination, not on the present.
“For
our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far
outweighs them all. So, we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is
unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”
2
Corinthians 4:17-18 NIV
7.
To conform us to the likeness of Jesus
Suffering
is never needless or coincidental. God is always at work in everything to
restore the image of His Son in us. Suffering is not about our outward
circumstances but about our attitudes and responses, and results in inward
transformation.
God’s
purpose is to teach us submission and obedience to Him as true sons, motivated
by our love and trust in Him.
“…
For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son,
so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.”
Romans
8:29, NLT
8.
To keep us humble and dependant on the Lord
Suffering
exposes our weaknesses and drives us towards God’s grace.
“…
So, to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a
messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud.
2
Corinthians 12:7
“Three
different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace
is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast
about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s
why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships,
persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I
am strong.”
2
Corinthians 12:8-10 NLT
9.
To remind us of our mortality
We
must never fall into the trap of believing that we are here forever. We are
pilgrims passing through, and what we are learning and becoming now is
preparing us for our destiny in God’s eternal kingdom.
“Dear
friends, I warn you as “temporary residents and foreigners” to keep away from
worldly desires that wage war against your very souls.”
1
Peter 2:11 NLT
10.
To expose our hearts
Bill
Johnson, of Bethel Church fame, once said, “Jesus loved to offend the mind
to expose the heart”. How true this is in the issue of suffering!
This
is another very important reason for suffering, to test our commitment to
trusting God. We say we trust Him when all is well but what happens when things
go terribly wrong? Job experienced this test big time!
When
hardships and suffering come our way, our attitude towards God is brought to the
surface. Even our question, “Why?” reveals an unconscious note of
resistance or even rebellion which reveal a subtle suspicion or mistrust of
God’s love.
Jeremiah’s
question exposed his attitude of mistrust of God in his suffering.
“Why
then does my suffering continue? Why is my wound so incurable? Your help seems
as uncertain as a seasonal brook, like a spring that has gone dry.”
Jeremiah
15:18
God’s
response was, “If you take back those words, Jeremiah, then you will still
serve me… Change your attitude, Jeremiah because, if you don’t, I am finished
with you.”
“This
is how the Lord responds: “If you return to me, I will restore you so you can
continue to serve me. If you speak good words rather than worthless ones, you
will be my spokesman. You must influence them; do not let them influence
you!”
Jeremiah
15:19
This
is how seriously God views our mistrust in Him when things go wrong.
ATTITUDE
1.
Suffer in a way that pleases God
In
what way must we suffer that pleases God?
The
Bible clearly states that it is faith in God that pleases Him. When we continue
to trust Him in the most difficult and painful of circumstances, He responds to
our prayers, and provides all the grace and strength we need to endure.
“So,
if you are suffering in a manner that pleases God, keep on doing what is right,
and trust your lives to the God who created you, for he will never fail
you.”
1
Peter 4:19 NLT
2.
Have the same attitude as Jesus had
Jesus
had the attitude of a true son, always submissive and obedient to the Father.
“Abba,
Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of
suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
Mark
14:36 NLT
“You
must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Though he was God, he did
not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up
his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a
human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to
God and died a criminal’s death on a cross.”
Philippians
2:5-8 NLT
“For
God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered
for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps. He did not
retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left
his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly.”
1
Peter 2:21, 23 NLT
3.
Trust God for His grace in your suffering
“…
So, to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a
messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. Three
different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace
is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast
about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s
why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships,
persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I
am strong.”
2
Corinthians 12:7-10 NLT
4.
Keep your eyes on the goal
“For
our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for
us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!
2
Corinthians 4:17 NLT
Suffering
will have a new meaning when we take the long look, remembering that we are
only travelling through, not permanent residents of this imperfect world. We
are being prepared for a glorious future where there will be no more pain or
suffering.
“I
heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, “Look, God’s home is now among his
people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will
be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no
more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.”
Revelation
21:3-4 NLT
Years
ago, as a young believer, I read a book by Paul Billheimer entitled “Don’t
Waste Your Sorrows”. I have long since forgotten the content of the book,
but the title is enough good advice to remind us of the meaning and purpose of
our sorrows as we navigate life on this fallen planet.
So
I say to you, as you contemplate God’s answer to the problem of your suffering,
“Don’t waste your sorrows” Falling in line with God’s Word has eternal
benefit by embracing, not fighting what comes your way.
“So,
we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things
that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the
things we cannot see will last forever.”
2
Corinthians 4:18 NLT