DID
YOU KNOW (2)
…THAT YOU CAN NEVER DISAPPOINT GOD OR
LET HIM DOWN?
How often I have heard a child of God
bewailing the fact that he or she has disappointed God or let Him down. We
attribute our own emotions to God as though He were human like us.
Let’s think about it. Why do people so
often disappoint us? Is it not because we put expectations on others of which
they are not aware and which they are unable or unwilling to fulfil? Does God
do to us what we do to others? Of course not!
Why is it impossible for us to
disappoint God?
Firstly, we can never disappoint God
because He puts no expectations on us. How do we know this? David gives us the
answer.
As
a Father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those
who fear Him; for He knows how we are formed, He remembers that we are dust
(Psa. 103:13-14).
God is fully aware of our human frailty.
He knows that we are incapable of living up to His requirements on our own.
Secondly, God is all-knowing. In
theological terms, He is omniscient. Once again, it was David who celebrated
God’s omniscience in one of his most well-known and beautiful psalms.
You
have searched me, Lord, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue, you, Lord,
know it completely (Psa. 139:1-4).
How can God put expectations on us when
He knows us more intimately than we know ourselves? He knows what we will think
before we think it; He knows what we will say before we say it; He knows what
we will do before we do it. He is always ahead of us, never behind us;
therefore, it is impossible for us not to do what He expects of us without His
knowing.
Thirdly, God treats us as His children.
He knows that we are utterly dependent on Him. He likes it that way because He
is the source of our life and of everything we need. He wants us to lean as
heavily on Him as a new-born infant relies on his mother for everything. He trusts
us only with that which He enables us to do and to be. If we fail, He forgives
unconditionally because the blood of Jesus has already taken care of all our
frailties, fallibilities, and imperfections.
Amazing as it is, God is very
comfortable with us. He is never fazed by our failures. Perhaps the most
glaring example of God’s patience and tolerance is the story of Peter’s
failure. He was headstrong and cocksure of himself. Not even Jesus’ warning that
he was on the brink of a terrible melt-down alerted him to the fatal flaw in
his self-confidence. He felt strong enough to weather any storm, not knowing
that a storm of such magnitude was brewing that he would be completely
overwhelmed and swept into the betrayal of his dearest friend.
“Simon,
Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you,
Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen
your brothers.” But he replied, “Lord, I am ready to go with you to prison and
to death.” Jesus answered, “I tell you, Peter, before the rooster crows today,
you will deny three times that you know me.” (Luke 22:31-34).
Fourthly, God allows us to fail because
failure is a better teacher than success. Success is more dangerous for us than
failure because success is the breeding ground for sins far worse than our
failures, pride, and self-sufficiency. Jesus knew what we can do and become
when we ride the crest of the wave.
He taught His disciples, in His
well-known pattern prayer, that within us are the seeds of our own destruction.
“Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from the Evil One.” We pray this
prayer glibly and without understanding. Our real enemy is not the devil. Far
worse is the enemy within. Jesus was aware of what we are capable of becoming
and doing – yes, under the influence of Satan, but because of our own choices.
We do not need deliverance from Satan as much
as we need to be kept from the ravages of our own sinful nature. We are not
Satan’s victims. If we were, God would not be able to hold us responsible for
our choices and behaviour. We are accountable to Him for who and what we are
because He gave us our free will and will never violate that gift.
He also gave us Jesus. Jesus came to
save us from the penalty and power of sin. Only when we live “in Him” are we
able to overcome the pull of self and sin.
Fifthly, God is in the process of
recreating us in the likeness of His Son. He uses all our circumstances and
experiences to expose the weaknesses in us so that He can hone our confidence
in His perfect love.
And
we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, those
who have been called according to His purpose. For those God foreknew He also
predestined to be conformed to the likeness of His son, that He might be the
firstborn among many brothers (Rom. 8:28-29).
No, we can never disappoint God. He
works everything about us into that perfect image of His Son which, from His
perspective, is already complete.
For in Christ all the fullness of the
Deity lives in bodily form, 10 and in Christ you have been brought
to fullness. Colossians 2:9-10
All of our life experiences, good and
bad, lead us through God’s grace to necome what we already are, complete in
Christ Jesus.
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