For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”
John 3:17 NIV
These words, spoken to Nicodemus, spill over into the narrative of chapter 4 in a tender and poignant story. Let me explain.
We are familiar with the story of Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman. She was, if anything, a woman of loose morals…a “sinner” in the eyes of religious Jews. The fact that she came for water at midday spoke volumes about her place in society…shunned, an outcast, someone the people in her village preferred to avoid.
Why would Jesus, of all people, even acknowledge her, let alone talk to her?
I have recently watched/listened to a number of testimonies of ex-Muslims, some from the highest echelons of Muslim society, who have had a personal encounter with Jesus. A thread runs through every story. Despite the attitude of hatred, disgust, and contempt cultivated towards Jesus from childhood, every convert encountered, whether in a dream or a near-death experience, a person of infinite love. Never was there a word or an attitude of judgment or condemnation.
Surely Jesus, the Son of God and Creator of the universe, has the right to be incensed by the words spoken against Him, and the cruel treatment people receive when they learn the truth about Him. Yet, He loves despite the insults, the rejection, the enmity of mere humans.
What was it, above all else, that drew this sinful woman to an infinitely holy man? When He disclosed His knowledge about her…
“Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.””
John 4:18 NIV
…she should have run from Him in shame, but she didn’t. Were His to her words not judgment and condemnation? No! Jesus’ treatment and words conveyed, not judgment but understanding. “I know you!” If we dig deeper, we will recognise that His message was not “You are a sinful woman,” but “You are a thirsty woman!”
She ran back to the very people who shunned her with an exciting confession…”He knows me.” Not shame but wonder! Of all the things Jesus said to her, this disclosure hit her the hardest. “Can He be the Messiah?”
In her sinful lifestyle, Jesus recognised a heart yearning for authentic love. Five times she tried and failed. Marriage was not the answer, so why bother. Just shack up. She could walk away if it didn’t work. She kept drinking at the wrong fountain.
Jesus saw, not her sin but her heart.
What dos this story say about Jesus’ attitude towards those who run from Him through ignorance or those who have been taught to hate and revile Him? He knows them! His response to the vile things people think and say about Him, and even the evil things they do in rebellion against Him, is not judgment but understanding.
This doesn’t mean that Jesus excuses sin. Far from it! However, He knows every heart. He forgave those who crucified Him in ignorance.
The theme of God’s forbearance runs throughout Scripture.
David celebrated…
“The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever; he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities.”
Psalms 103:8-10 NIV
Jesus declared to a Pharisee…
“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”
John 3:17 NIV
Paul wrote to believers…
“…God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.”
2 Corinthians 5:19 NIV
… and preached to unbelievers…
“In the past God overlooked such ignorance, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent. For he has set a day when he will judge the world with justice by the man he has appointed. He has given proof of this to everyone by raising him from the dead.””
Acts 17:30-31 NIV
What lies at the heart of God’s patience and mercy towards sinners? The CROSS! All sin was judged at the cross. The cross casts its shadow over all time. The cross paid for the sin of all people.
Jesus offered the Samaritan woman the living water flowing freely to all people, regardless of who she was or what she had done, if she was willing to receive it.
If I were to invent a religion to rival the truth about Jesus, the god of my imagination would have this quality above all else…he would love and understand, not judge and condemn.
This great truth sets Jesus apart from all others. His is a love that cancels the paralysing fear of punishment. His holiness does not drive us from Him. It draws us to Him because He has dealt with, by His own intervention, the very barrier that excludes us from His holy presence.
“This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins…There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.”
1 John 4:10, 18 NIV
If there is ever a reason to believe in Jesus, it’s this.
“People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.””
1 Samuel 16:7 NIV