John 17:20-21 NLT
[20] “I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message. [21] I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me.”
Intimacy with God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit was restored when we believed in Jesus as Lord and Saviour. The Holy Spirit joined us to Christ and took up residence in our spirits as representative of the Trinity. He is, to us, God’s presence in us, permanently.
So, we have the same relationship with the Father as Jesus had, Father and sons. He knows us and we know Him. Surely, then we have the same access to the Father as Jesus had, through prayer.
The hallmark of Jesus’ prayer life, was His intimacy with the Father. He and the Father were one, united and in harmony with everything they were and did.
So, the Father desires the same intimacy with us as His sons and daughters. Not that we are God, by any means, but that we are His sons and daughters.
What is intimacy? A dictionary definite it as “close friendship”. There are many ways to express intimacy in a close relationship. We can define intimacy in a series of words…knowledge, acceptance, transparency, honesty, openness and togetherness, based on mutual trust and expressed through communication. Intimacy is modelled in a human marriage relationship where two people commit themselves to one another to share their lives in love and mutual trust for as long as they live.
Intimacy with God is a also a two-way connection except that His relationship with us is that of superior to inferior. He is God – we are to worship Him. He is our Father – we are to submit to and obey Him. He is our supreme authority – we are to live under under His command. He is God and we have an obligation to relate to Him as God.
With these requirements that provide the environment of our relationship with Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, our role is to make Him the centre of our lives in everything. We must develop the right attitudes in every detail and department of our lives, protecting our trust, honesty, and transparency and responding to Him with willing obedience and submission. God never moves away from us. He gave us the initiative to sustain our intimacy with Him. It is we who move away from Him.
James 4:8 NLT
[8] “Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world.”
Divided loyalty ruins intimacy because the level of closeness we enjoy with God depends on how important it is for us to maintain an exclusive relationship with Him.
Two Old Testament recipes for an exclusive relationship with God help us to maintain our intimacy with Him.
David’s prayer…
Psalms 86:11 NLT
[11] “Teach me your ways, O Lord, that I may live according to your truth! Grant me purity of heart, so that I may honor you.”
And Solomon’s counsel to his son…
Proverbs 3:1-2, 5-8 NLT
[1] “My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart. [2] If you do this, you will live many years, and your life will be satisfying…
[5]”Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. [6] Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. [7] Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil. [8] Then you will have healing for your body and strength for your bones.”
What can be more precious than to guard our intimacy with God and enjoy the benefits of that closeness!
Psalms 25:14 NIV
[14] “The Lord confides in those who fear him; he makes his covenant known to them.”
Our role, then, is to seek the Lord, to listen and obey Him, to confide in Him, and to entrust the course and cares of our lives to Him. If we choose and nurture intimacy with the Lord, He will reciprocate with fellowship so close and sweet that nothing else will ever satisfy.