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PRAYING GOD’S WAY – 22

EVEN MORE!

‭1 Thessalonians 3:12-13 NLT‬
[12] “And may the Lord make your LOVE for one another and for all people grow and overflow, just as our love for you overflows. [13] May he, as a result, make your hearts strong, blameless, and holy as you stand before God our Father when our Lord Jesus comes again with all his holy people. Amen.“

Such a happy letter! Paul has much to commend the people in the Thessalonian church. They responded to his message, believed the truth and lived it out among the pagans in their city.

Unlike the people in some churches, Thessalonians believers didn’t drag their pagan lifestyle with them into their new lives. Their love for one another was powerful evidence of God’s work of grace in them.

All through the ages, the ‘wheat’ and the ‘weeds’ in the world are left to grow together. When harvest time comes, Jesus said, the wheat and weeds will be separated according to their fruit. The true and the false may be difficult to differentiate as they grow but their fruit will eventually give them away.

So, Paul prays, whatever the Thessalonians believers were doing, do it even more. In this way, when harvest time comes, there will be no doubt about their identity and to whom they belong.

‭1 Thessalonians 4:1 NLT‬
[1] “Finally, dear brothers and sisters, we urge you in the name of the Lord Jesus to live in a way that pleases God, as we have taught you. You live this way already, and we encourage you to do so even more.”

Paul’s prayer for the Philippians Church enshrines this thought.

‭Philippians 1:11 NLT‬
[11] “May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.”

There is a particular fragrance, an aroma, about those who belong to Jesus, like the fragrance of freshly-picked fruit that identifies its kind.

‭2 Corinthians 2:15 NLT‬
[15]”Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. But this fragrance is perceived differently by those who are being saved and by those who are perishing.”

As we read through Paul’s letters of correction, instruction, and encouragement to different groups of people, qualities and characteristics begin to emerge that typify true believers.

‭1 Thessalonians 1:3 NLT‬
[3]”As we pray to our God and Father about you, we think of your FAITHFUL WORK , your LOVING DEEDS , and the ENDURING HOPE you have because of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

‭Romans 1:8 NLT‬
[8] “Let me say first that I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you, because your FAITH in him is being talked about all over the world.”

‭Colossians 1:4-5 NLT‬
[4] “For we have heard of your FAITH in Christ Jesus and your LOVE for all of God’s people, [5] which come from your confident HOPE of what God has reserved for you in heaven. You have had this expectation ever since you first heard the truth of the Good News.”

‭1 Corinthians 13:13 NLT‬
[13]”Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.”

Faith, love, hope… the core qualities of believers in Jesus, evidence of the new life in Him, emerge from Paul’s writings. These are the fruit of our salvation.

The fragrance of these fruits pervade the atmosphere around us like sweet perfume. O, that the Lord would fill His people with the fruits of our salvation!

We have Paul’s example to follow as we obey his instruction to pray for all believers everywhere.

‭Ephesians 6:18 NLT‬
[18] “Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere.”

Whatever believers are doing that shows their true life in Jesus, pray that they will do it even more. There are spinoffs when we channel our energies into faith, hope and love,

“May he, as a result, make your hearts STRONG , BLAMELESS , and HOLY as you stand before God our Father when our Lord Jesus comes again with all his holy people.”

“… for this will bring much glory and praise to God.”

Isn’t this, after all, what we desire above all else, as God’s beloved children, to be strong, blameless, and holy when we stand before God, and to bring much praise and glory to Him? Our prayers will contribute to the quality of the fruit God’s children bear all over the world that make this possible.

PRAYING GOD’S WAY – 21

THE “DO’S AND DON’TS” OF PRAYER

As much as there are do’s and don’ts on every level of life that help or hinder us, so too with prayer. Jesus made it clear to His disciples that do’s and don’ts are of great importance when we approach the Father. If we ignore the don’ts, we ignore the wrong attitudes that hinder our prayers. If we do the do’s, we enhance our prayer lives by praying God’s way.

The first ‘don’t’ is one we easily miss because we are dominated by our self-consciousness.

‭Matthew 6:5 NLT‬
[5] “When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get….”

This ‘don’t’ is especially applicable when we pray in a group. We like the affirmation of those who admire our use of words. So, we plan our words while others are praying! Conversely, we listen to others pray and bemoan the fact that we can’t pray as ‘beautifully’ as someone else! All the while, we forget that prayer is about conversing with God, not speaking to people.

Our self-consciousness (and pride) are always there to intrude in what should be an intimate time with the Father. If recognition is our subconscious motive when we pray, our prayers may bounce off the ceiling. They don’t impress God.

The second ‘don’t’ is equally a trap into which we easily fall, closely tied to our desire to impress. Words!

‭Matthew 6:7 NLT‬
[7] “When you pray, don’t babble on and on as the Gentiles do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again…“

Oh, how we babble! To babble means to mutter, repeating the same words or, often, in our case, giving God lengthy explanations, instructions, advice, and requests. We subconsciously treat God exactly as the ‘Gentiles’ treat their pagan gods, either hard of hearing or, worse, lacking in understanding, when we babble!

Jesus said that prayer is NOT about people or words. He gave us two ways to counteract our don’ts by changing our doing.

We can neutralise our self-awareness by praying in secret. Then our words won’t matter. Jesus specifically said that the Father ‘sees’, not ‘hears’, our secret prayers. We express our intention when we pray in secret. We want the Father, not people, to hear us so, we go aside and pray alone.

Babbling means that words spew out of our mouths like water from a fountain. God is not impressed by our carefully chosen and many words. He listens to the heart. He knows us. He knows our needs before we ask Him. He doesn’t need our words to explain or instruct.

That’s the reason for transparency when we pray because prayer is about intimacy, and intimacy and honesty go together.

God has given us a simple way to overcome our babbling. He told us just to say “Amen” to His promises.

‭2 Peter 1:4 NLT‬
[4] “And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.”

‭2 Corinthians 1:20 NLT‬
[20] “For all of God’s promises have been fulfilled in Christ with a resounding “Yes!” And through Christ, our “Amen” (which means “Yes”) ascends to God for his glory.”

A simple “Amen” to whatever promise God gives us in time of need will cut off the flow of babbling and quieten our hearts to have confidence in His intention.

Instead of babbling, let’s listen. God has a word of reassurance… that He knows and He has a plan in everything for our good and His glory.

Read these matchless words of James Montgomery (1818). Perhaps, we can catch a glimpse of the enormity of true prayer that needs not words but heart to reach the heart of God.

“Prayer is the soul’s sincere desire,
Uttered or unexpressed,
The motion of a hidden fire
That trembles in the breast.

Prayer is the burden of a sigh,
The falling of a tear,
The upward glancing of an eye
When none but God is near.

Prayer is the simplest form of speech
That infant lips can try;
Prayer, the sublimest strains that reach
The Majesty on high.

Prayer is the Christian’s vital breath,
The Christian’s native air;
His watchword at the gates of death,
He enters heav’n with prayer

Prayer is the contrite sinner’s voice
Returning from his ways,
While angels in their songs rejoice
And cry, “Behold! He prays!”

Nor prayer is made on earth alone
The Holy Spirit pleads,
And Jesus at the Father’s throne
For sinners intercedes.

O thou by whom we come to God,
The Life, the Truth, the Way,
The path of prayer thyself hast trod
Lord, teach us how to pray.”

Source: Musixmatch

PRAYING GOD’S WAY – 20

NEEDS AND WANTS

It’s amazing how much our needs and wants occupy our prayers. We even come to God with our ‘prayer lists’ in case we forget to remind the Lord of this and that need!

Imagine if that were the way we treated our earthly fathers. Once a day, in the morning, our ‘quiet time’ with our dad would be taken up with our needs for the day. “Amen” would signal that we were finished with him, and we would run off to play, confident that dad would take care of everything! No need to talk to him again until tomorrow morning!

How foolish we are! Jesus taught us by His life and actions, that we are intimately connected to a heavenly Father who cares for us as His beloved children. No need to nag or beg. He knows us, and He knows our needs before we ask Him.

So, why pray if prayer is not about needs and wants? In His model prayer, Jesus elevated our thoughts from our selfish preoccupation with our needs and wants to the Father’s rule on earth. Jesus came to restore God’s kingdom to the earthly realm. Sin had intruded to disrupt His plan for a human family to live with Him. He died to forgive and remove our sin, to reconcile us to our Father, and restore fellowship with Him.

God’s rule implies that we learn to do life together here on earth God’s way. He sets the standard for our interaction with Him and with one another. Love, joy, and peace are the flavour of His kingdom, and pervade all our relationships when we live under His authority. In His kingdom, our daily needs are included in His provision.

We must overcome selfishness, self-interest, and self-sufficiency, which dominate our ungodly old nature, by the power of the Holy Spirit at work in us. Jesus taught us to focus our attention on God’s rule in our hearts, and in the people in the world around us to extend His kingdom in earth.

So, what must we do about our own needs? Jesus gave us a simple solution.

‭Matthew 6:33 NLT‬
[33] “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”

Change your focus from your needs to God’s kingdom. Learn to do the right thing, to take care of the needs of others, for this is the way of the kingdom. Then God will take care of you.

” But,” you ask, “didn’t Jesus teach us to ask for our daily bread?”

If that’s what He meant, He would be contradicting Himself.

Jesus was a Jew, raised from birth to know and recite the Torah, the five books of Moses. He would know the meaning of daily bread… God’s provision of manna for His people in the wilderness.

However, He also knew the deeper implication of that provision. After He had fed the five thousand with bread and fish, they went after Him again, probably hoping for another free meal.

‭John 6:26-27, 30-33 NLT‬
[26] “Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, you want to be with me because I fed you, not because you understood the miraculous signs. [27] But don’t be so concerned about perishable things like food. Spend your energy seeking the eternal life that the Son of Man can give you. For God the Father has given me the seal of his approval.”…
[30] They answered, “Show us a miraculous sign if you want us to believe in you. What can you do? [31] After all, our ancestors ate manna while they journeyed through the wilderness! The Scriptures say, ‘Moses gave them bread from heaven to eat.’” [32] Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, Moses didn’t give you bread from heaven. My Father did. And now he offers you the true bread from heaven. [33] The true bread of God is the one who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.”

Our preoccupation with ‘daily bread’ indicates, like those in the story, that we are selfish and earth-bound in our thinking.

What was Jesus’ solution?

‭Matthew 6:25, 31-33 NLT‬
[25] “That is why I tell you not to worry about everyday life—whether you have enough food and drink, or enough clothes to wear. Isn’t life more than food, and your body more than clothing?….
[31] “So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ [32] These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. [33] Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”

‘Daily bread’, then, is not about daily needs but about what matters most, Jesus, the ‘bread from heaven’ who nourishes our souls when we feed on Him.

This is the way God’s kingdom works on earth. We create a current when we care for others. God’s provision flows back to us. We feed and nourish our life in Jesus as we gaze at Him and learn from Him how to be true sons of our heavenly Father, reflecting Him in what we say and do.

PRAYING GOD’S WAY – 19

PRAYER AN EXCHANGE

‭Philippians 4:6-7 NLT‬
[6] “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. [7] Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”

We love and often quote this Scripture but have we recognised the significance of what Paul is advocating?

‘Stress’ is a big factor in life today. Stress intrudes into every situation we face. Even taking a trip in our car involves stress. So many lawless and reckless drivers on our roads! Almost every big decision involves stress. “What if this… if I do that…” raises so many uncertainties that stress is our constant companion…if we let it.

How can we handle stress in such a way that stress no longer stresses us?

Paul said, “Exchange your stress for God’s peace.”

How do we make this exchange? Once again, prayer is the solution. Paul didn’t say, “Pray about your problems!” He did say, “Give your anxiety to God.” What’s the difference? Praying about our problems focuses on our problems. Giving God our anxiety focuses on the root of our problems, our mistrust in God.

A message from Andy Stanley (son of the great Baptist preacher, Charles Stanley), puts this prayer in perspective. “Come clean with God,” he said. Sometimes our prayers are dishonest. We tell God what we think He wants to hear. How much better to tell Him what we really feel!

‭Psalms 55:22 NLT‬
[22] “Give your burdens to the Lord, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall.”

God will not be offended if we tell Him how stressed we are about this or that situation. Offloading on Him does something amazing! He trades our anxiety for His peace!

God’s peace not only overshadows our stress, it obliterates it…removes anxiety altogether and replace it with peace.

God’s peace is a powerful force, putting a garrison of protection around our thoughts and decisions that actively engages the enemy.

Satan is always looking for an opportunity to inject mistrust and suspicion in our minds. He targets our attitude towards God. When difficult situations arise, doubt threatens to creep in. Keep thanking God. He’s in charge. Guard the peace that guards you. We guard our peace by remembering with gratitude what God has done in the past. What He did before, He will do again.

The amazing outcome of honesty with God is not only the guarantee of His own peace but also His own presence if we change the way we think. We must never forget the second part of Paul’s counsel.

‭Philippians 4:8-9 NLT‬
[8] “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. [9] Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.”

‘God with us’ is much more than His passive presence. He actively participates in prospering and blessing us.

‭Genesis 39:2 NLT‬
[2]”The Lord was with Joseph, so he succeeded in everything he did as he served in the home of his Egyptian master.”

Do you want God’s favour and blessing in your life? Of course you do! Then change the way you think.
Get rid of your worries. Replace anxiety with gratitude. Dump your cares on God. He will do the impossible, exchange cares for His peace and stress for rest. This is the only way-to-go that works.

PRAYING GOD’S WAY – 18

JESUS IN THE MIDST

‭John 21:20-22, 25 NLT‬

‭John 21:3-6 NLT‬
[3] Simon Peter said, “I’m going fishing.” “We’ll come, too,” they all said. So they went out in the boat, but they caught nothing all night. [4] At dawn Jesus was standing on the beach, but the disciples couldn’t see who he was. [5] He called out, “Fellows, have you caught any fish?” “No,” they replied. [6] Then he said, “Throw out your net on the right-hand side of the boat, and you’ll get some!” So they did, and they couldn’t haul in the net because there were so many fish in it….

[20] Peter turned around and saw behind them the disciple Jesus loved—the one who had leaned over to Jesus during supper and asked, “Lord, who will betray you?” [21] Peter asked Jesus, “What about him, Lord?” [22] Jesus replied, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? As for you, follow me.”…
[25] Jesus also did many other things. If they were all written down, I suppose the whole world could not contain the books that would be written.”

What a strange way for John to end his gospel record! His story trails away to almost an apologetic anticlimax…or does it? It depends on the way we interpret what he intended.

I’ve heard it taught that Peter disobeyed Jesus’ instruction by going fishing instead of meeting Him on the mountain after His resurrection. On reflection, perhaps… it wasn’t so much his disobedience as his terrible failure that made him run from Jesus. Did Peter feel like he’d blown it with Jesus forever? Perhaps… he would simply go back to his old life and forget about being a disciple of this rabbi he had grown to know and love despite his cowardly denial. Perhaps that’s the way he thought and acted.

Perhaps…for Jesus, this meeting on the beach was a divine appointment. After all, Jesus knew where Peter was, on the lake in Galilee, fishing. He knew how Peter felt. He had seen the hot tears rolling down Peter’s cheeks as the cock crowed. He understood human nature. Peter had been humiliated by his own mouth. He couldn’t turn the clock back. Jesus was finished with him, so he would just go away, back to his old life, with the interim years a beautiful but fading memory.

The scene on the beach was strangely familiar. Tired men, empty nets, no fish… reminiscent of a similar occasion years back when Jesus appeared in the shore of the lake. Same situation now – tired men, empty nets, no fish. An unusual instruction from a stranger and then… enough fish to sink their boat! It happened twice, then and now!

Did the divine Master arrange it this way for a reason?

Perhaps… Jesus was purposely triggering Peter’s memory to serve His own gracious purpose. After reassuring and recommissioning Peter, Jesus issued the same instruction, “Follow me!”, twice, now and then! It was impossible for Peter to miss the impact of the beach scene and its outcome.

First time, rookie disciple, “Follow me!” and Peter sets off running, all enthusiasm and big mouth.

Second time, fallen disciple, “Follow me,” and Peter walks slowly, thoughtfully, sobered and brought down with a crash by his own big mouth. Forgiven and restored, a second chance, same commission, a new Peter!

And so, perhaps… John’s conclusion begins to make sense. Not so much ‘books written’ but ‘stories told’, just like Peter’s story, of failure and forgiveness, of relapse and restoration, over and over again, down the centuries, enough to fill the whole world with the records of God’s mercy and goodness, flowing in an unending river of grace from the cross which made it all possible.

When we read Peter’s story from a different perspective, we see Jesus’s determined purpose to set him back on his feet and back on the path of His purposes. Using Peter’s fall, not as a club to beat him but as a stepping stone to greater fruitfulness through the pruning, He met Peter where he
was, picked him up and carried him on to completion.

How do our prayers make such an amazing difference in the administration of God’s kingdom?

The book of Hebrews introduces us to a factor in our prayer lives that we must never forget. Yes, Jesus gives us power of attorney to use His name and nature as the guarantee that God will answer but…

Jesus has an even more intimate role in our praying. He is IN the Most Holy Place, AT our side as we approach the Father. When we come to the Father in His name, He is there. He vouches for us, presenting His blood as our right to approach.

‭Hebrews 7:24-25 NLT‬
[24] “But because Jesus lives forever, his priesthood lasts forever. [25] Therefore he is able, once and forever, to save those who come to God through him. He lives forever to intercede with God on their behalf.”

He is our Advocate, presenting the merits of His sacrifice to the Father that forgives all sin for all time.

‭1 John 2:1-2 NLT‬
[1]”My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. [2] He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins—and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.”

He is the eternal High Priest who qualifies to represent us because He became one of us. He suffered as we do. He experienced all the temptations humans face… without sin. He is perfectly suited to represent us to the Father.

‭Hebrews 4:14-16 NLT‬
[14] “So then, since we have a great High Priest who has entered heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to what we believe. [15] This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin. [16] So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.”

Our safety and security, too, in the Father’s presence, in the Most Holy Place, all depend on Jesus being there with us. He was there with Peter, doing everything to set the record straight. So He is there with us. The Father, who set it all up in the first place, now receives the Son’s intercession on our behalf and graciously hears us for Jesus’ sake.

Can you see, then, that Peter’s story is our story, and the story of the millions who have come after him? These stories are too many for all the libraries of the world to contain… stories of mercy, forgiveness, and restoration that echo the story of Simon who became Peter.

We can participate with the Father in prayer because we, too, have been forgiven and restored and are represented by the one who did it all for us.